ANGELS & THE HOLIDAYS
BY
TOM T. MOORE
COPYRIGHT 2006

The month of December is generally viewed as a great month of parties, dinners with friends, and reunions with families. But it can be a highly stressful time when you’re in charge of the dinner, or you have to travel, or you and your family are worlds apart in lifestyles and/or beliefs.

I’m going to give you some tips and suggestions to make this time period much less stressful and a lot more pleasurable. About ten years ago, in reading spiritual articles and books, I read a suggestion to request benevolent outcomes for events in your life. After having made these requests between 10,000 and 15,000 times over the years, I am firmly convinced that our Guardian Angels are there to assist us in living more gentle lives. We just have to ask.

So how do you request Benevolent Outcomes from your Guardian Angel? If you are cooking for your friends or family, consider saying, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome that the food I prepare will be perfect for my group, and that our time spent together will be enjoyable. Thank you.” Always thank your Guardian Angel, and the more emotion you can put into these requests the better. These requests need to be said out loud or in writing.

Here are some Holiday travel requests for Benevolent Outcomes:
· Your drive be safe and free of traffic to the airport or destination;
· Your luggage will arrive safely and on time;
· You speed through the Security Line with no delays;
· Your plane and any connections are on time;
· You sit next to someone interesting, or, if you need to sleep, next to someone who will not want to talk;
· Your safety participating in sports.

You can request a Benevolent Outcome that your visit with your family or acquaintances be cordial and pleasant. Just say, “I ask that during the time I am at (name the location) that my experience be delightful. Thank you. This may seem like you’re asking a lot in some instances, but ASK FOR THE IMPOSSIBLE!

Under this category comes family members or people you know will be at the party or reunion with which you have had a difficult time. The reasons could include alcoholism, drug use, or you have had a difficult relationship with them in the past. You can say, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for having a pleasant relationship with (name) during the time I am with them.” Again, change the wording to fit your particular circumstances.

If you are worried about you and/or your children’s safety while in the presence of someone whom you know to be physically, mentally, or sexually abusive, then say, “I ask that my safety (and that the safety of my children) be guaranteed now and in the future in a way that is Benevolent to us all.” This can also be said if you are currently in a relationship where you are fearful for the same reasons.

There is what I call the “Radiant Effect” when you make these requests. Many of these requests will be benevolent for all of those around you, such as when you request a Benevolent Outcome for a pleasant time with someone who has caused everyone problems. When you request Benevolent Outcomes for yourself, it also affects others—in this case those who are at the dinner, party, or reunion with you. It makes for a much more pleasant time for everyone! These simple requests can lower your stress and make your family’s holiday much more congenial and joyful!

Have a Benevolent Holiday!

About the Author
Tom T. Moore is an entertainment industry CEO and speaker, who distributes motion pictures and TV programs internationally. His book, The Gentle Way: A Self-Help Guide For Those Who Believe in Angels (ISBN # 1-891824-60-0, Light Technology) gives many more suggestions for requesting Benevolent Outcomes. Visit his website at www.TheGentleWayBook.com.